Friday List!

Jill's List:

These are on my list for "To Buy in the United States."  We have a serious Lego explosion problem. Thanks, Swissmiss.

Modern midwifery offered as a service for ALL mamas.  (Photo essay by Alice Proujansky.)

Midwife Jennie Jones from Commonsense Childbirth in Florida.  Photo from Alice Proujansky's series, here.

This is how Johan and I are acclimating ourselves to American culture and reducing stress all at the same time.  Highly recommended - though I was very resistant at first.  (Johan still won't admit in public that he likes the show.  So I thought I'd post about on my blog.)

Image from here.

The other day, Loulou was running around the house yelling, "America is going to buy me a t-shirt!"  I asked "What? Who told you that?", and she responded, "Elias."  Obviously, my children are already experiencing significant confusion as a result of our lifestyle.  One day, they will enjoy this Tumblr, I suppose.

From the entry: "When you meet someone who has never been to Europe."
Tried to contact the author - but couldn't find an address.  Any ideas?

African travels and gobsmackingly expressive photography on this blog.  More from him on The Getaway.

Incredible images.  You must see more of Anton Crone's work here.

Badouin Muoanda captures dreams from the Republic of Congo (across the river from us).  Check out images from his new work, "Le Rêve."

For this particular project, Baudouin asked women to wear a white wedding gown in a variety of locations to explore the idea of beauty in unlikely places. He would position the women in front of his camera in a whole host of colourful, contradictory surroundings and ask them, "Now that you are wearing this wedding gown, what's your dream?"

Image from here.

Sarah's List:

Another year is coming to a close. And it's another year made possible by the mamas. Makes me think of this great award acceptance speech when Amy Peohler thanked her nannies:

"...on behalf of every sister and mother and person who stands in your kitchen and helps you love your child, 

I say thank you and I celebrate you tonight."

1.2 years. That's how long Neanderthals breast-fed their babies. Fascinating. I wonder if they still judged each other. 

Field Museum, Chicago. Image from here.

Researchers have concluded, from the tooth of one Neanderthal child, that the infant was weaned off of its mother’s milk earlier than primates and a vast majority of modern humans.

Two things that made us laugh this week: The 39 Most Brooklyn Things Ever and 50 Things Only '80s Kids Can Understand. Seriously, after Baby Jessica, my childhood was spent staying at least 10 feet away from any well. 

One Man. Every Country. No Flights. Here's the only guy to do it. And here are his experiences in our part of the world. Bonus: An incredibly exhaustive review of all the world's flags. (Thanks Justin for the link!)

"Here’s another flag that changes every five minutes. The use of blue and yellow is never going to have me flinging out accolades like sweets from a parade, and there’s nothing particularly exciting going on here. I mean it’s not dreadful… it’s just not very good. Score: 3/10" Image from his website here.

  
I recently wrote about my pick for best bug repellant. But you might want to add a little DEET to that. In fact, when we arrived the handed-down rule was, "Wear nothing with less than 20% DEET." Here's a good run-down comparing DEET vs. the alternatives.

Or you can just not wear any bug lotion and drink lots of Gin and Tonics. Because the Tonic Water has quinine in it. Right? Right? That's always been my theory. Looks like that might not be so accurate. I'm pretending I never read this. 

Lining up for their quinine. (École des réugiés d'Asie mineure et de Macédoine où se fait une distribution de quinine août 1916.) Source found here.

Most important link of the week: 

Josh, Ashley and Leo are dear friends of everyone in the Mama Congo family. Go to their page, read about their sweet boy and think about how you can help.

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5 Things You've Probably Never Heard Of...But Should

It seems about half of my friends are pregnant or bleary-eyed from newborns. This got me thinking about those early baby days and all the random things that got us through. So here's a list of baby stuff you've probably never heard of (if you're an American mama) but should. None of which are manufactured in the US. So I'll call them baby products from "another world" if you will.

#1: Bepanthen. When Charlotte was born the nurses in South Africa threw tubes of this stuff at me. It heals whatever ails you. Nappy rash, cradle cap, stretch marks, cracked nipples, eczema, new tattoos (seriously!) You name it. A little dab'll do ya. They do suggest that if you're going to use it both on your baby's bum and mom's nipples you get two separate tubes. Good advice indeed. And you can get it on Amazon! I mean c'mon, a cream that works wonders on diaper rash, nipples and tattoos. How can you go wrong?

#2. Gripe Water. Okay you knew this one was coming. And no, I do not have stock in the company. But Gripe Water remains Mama Congo's most searched/most viewed topic so I know you love it too. If Bepanthen is the cure-all for whatever ails you externally, Gripe Water is the answer for all things internal.

I used to think it was the miracle serum for fussy babies, but recently discovered it works well on 3-year-olds too. Say, for example when they wander out of their bedroom 5 minutes after being put to bed (every night) and say, "Mama I can't sleep. I'm sick."  [Fake cough, fake cough.]  "I think I need some medicine." Yep, you sure do! Here are two drops of Gripe Water (which will do absolutely nothing for you, but make you feel "better"). And a good night is had by all.

Be sure you go for Woodwards non-American made variety with sugar and alcohol. Because really, is there anything a little sugar and alcohol can't fix? I'm having a hard time finding this specific concoction for sale online. Perhaps the #1 perk of living in the Third World is no one's outlawed our alcoholic Gripe Water.

#3. Johnson's Baby Anti-Mosquito Repellent. Congo Moms are experts on mosquito repellent. Just ask anyone and you're in for a 20 minute speech about what works best for her kids. Here's mine: After 5 years we've tried at least a dozen products. Most keep bugs away. But all feel gross on their skin, contain weird chemicals, or have to be scrubbed off immediately after outdoor play. And if I accidentally forget and kiss a kid wearing bug lotion, I can actually feel the cancer growing in my mouth.

Then a friend suggested Johnson's. She stocked up in Colombia because you can't find this stuff in the States. (Probably because it actually does contain carcinogens.) But it keeps the bugs away, has zero scent and I can't even feel it on my kids' skin. And the best part is, I don't have to bathe them afterward. The lazy mom's best friend.

When my Colombian stock ran out, I found this person on Amazon in Thailand. He/she is quite great and even sends me cute messages making sure I received it okay. And sometimes throws in an extra bottle. Done and done.

#4. Monganga Bébé Shampooing. That's right, shampooing. Okay you're probably not going to be able to get this one outside of Congo because it's made in Kinshasa, but it's kind of great. There's something about that little baby on the front that inspires our kids to wash their own hair. By themselves! They love her.

It's not weird that my child cuddles up with a bottle of shampoo, right?

I mean really, check out the cuteness on that cover-baby. I spent a lot of time looking at her until I realized she has the exact. same. hair as Adam. It's as if her hair has been photoshopped from a picture of him. Either that or I need to investigate what exactly Adam is up to when he says he's going to "hang out with the guys." I hope the magic of Monganga isn't that my children feel a strange sisterly bond with the cover-baby.

Just what have you been up to?

#5 Milton's Sterilising Tablets. Sometimes I wonder if the people who make baby equipment realize there are families without dishwashers. Or that their products might end up in Congo where you can literally watch mold grow. Enough with the infinite crevices and 15 detachable parts already!

I'm not interested in boiling our plastic, street bought, Chinese sippy cups, and hand washing can only get them so clean. So once in a while I round up all the suspicious stuff and sterilize it. You just dissolve a Milton's tablet in water, stick everything in a Ziploc, and voila all those bottles, pacis, sippy cups, and ridiculous water bottle lids are super clean. Sometimes the mold's still there, but at least it's clean mold, right?

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